Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Healthy Relationships

How many of the following attitudes and behaviors are present in your relationships?

Are you responsible for your own behavior and Happiness?

Is there a healthy balance between togetherness and separation?
Are you open to constructive feedback?

Humility- Are you able to let go of the need to be right?
Is there a balance in giving and receiving?

Are you tolerant with-in boundaries and are able to forgive yourself and others?
Are you willing to take risk and be vulnerable?

When you learn to have a healthy relationship you will turn around one day and find others following behind.

Are you consistent and trust worthy?
Are your rules and boundaries clear, yet allowing room for mistakes?

There are many relationships that are strained simply because we make everything about us and we forget to listen and not always have to respond. Knowing the person requires you taking time to listen ask questions and remember that they are seeking after getting needs met as well. Your view of the world is not going to be the same as everyone else, .If we make it a priority to care about others as much as we do ourselves relationships will grow and support one another. 


I say to care for others as much as self because I believe that if you do not care for self you will have nothing to offer to others. 

God values all of his creation, 

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