Valentines Day

Sweeeeeet, Sweeeeeet Love of mine, the chocolate candy is so Divine, it go so well with the cherry wine, Sweeeeeeet, Sweeeeeet Love of mine. Wow was that cheeeeeezy or what? Seriously a day set apart to honor and lavish the one you love is a great way to invest in your relationship.

One sure way to please is to understand your love one and what their love language is.

1) Words of Affirmation
2) Quality Time
3) Gift Giving
4) Physical Touch
5) Acts of Service

Learning to touch your spouse in the way that they feel loved is critical in hitting the Bulls Eye of your spouse's heart. Don't make the mistake of believing that the touch that brings pleasure to you will also bring pleasure to your mate.

Listening to your Spouse and responding in the way that blesses them will open doors that build trust, confidence, loyalty, memories, and stability. Every person makes choices in life motivated out of trying to meet their most basic human needs.

Basic Human needs -1) Certainty 2) Variety 3) Significance 4) Connection and Love 5) Growth 6) Contribution.

If you are aware of the motive behind the behavior you can become the person that your spouse turns to for their needs. Everyone will try to fill the voids that are not filled with something other than the way it was designed to be filled.

The most valuable gift you can give and receive is love that meets expectation.

Happy Valentines Day .