Devotional

Proverbs 17:10 - A reproof enters deeper into a man of understanding than a hundred lashes into a (self-confident fool. 

It is very easy for us to judge someones actions and to correct what we see as wrong. For the person receiving the reproof it can wound or bring healing and correction.

I believe that when we are going to correct or direct someone we should first sit down in private with them, and try to understand there side. 

If we have a pre-conceived idea about what we think is going on we will enter into judgement. Our goal is to move someone past the obstacle and empower them to better choices. If you are sure you understand them and you have helped them discover for themselves what the truth of the situation is then you can share wisdom with them , and because you took the time to listen they will be open to receive. 

To many people want to play the role of God and think that it is their right to correct us. The greater purpose would be to allow the one needing correction to discover for themselves. For those receiving if our hearts are pure and we are teachable we will take what is offered and filter it through our belief system and apply the truths and discard the junk. This is the man of understanding, he says that all people can teach me something even if it is how not to do something. An unteachable spirit will not receive because he is not seeking solutions. Until he is aware of his need you are wasting your time.