It is hardly ever the circumstances that stop you, no matter how you feel they seem and how sure you are that they are the cause of your difficulties.
What stops people are nearly always one of two things, your goal is shot down by your excuses and yeahbuts, or you are lacking true commitment.
What to do when facing a roadblock is to challenge your excuses, make commitments that are manageable, ones that you have set as there are no other options other than to complete my goal. Even if you have to extend the allotted time frame for completion. If you need accountability get a trusted person to come along side of you that will encourage and lead you on. If you are unwilling to do what it takes look at your purpose behind setting the goal.
Inner conflict will be a stumbling block as well if you do not create a state of consonance. This means being in agreement or accord, being harmonious. Create a state where your outside and inside agree.
When there is a lack of harmony between your inner voice and your outer world or when your personality is in conflict with your principles and what you are trying to accomplish, your integrity is compromised, and you will not trust yourself. Others will pick up on this dissonance and will tend no
t to trust you as well.
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